Sunday, January 18, 2009

selamat menempuh hidup baru ...

Untuk kali kedua saya menghadiri acara nikahan dimana saya sendiri yang diundang. Sebab kan biasanya kalo dateng ke acara nikahan itu bukan nama saya yang tertulis di undangan. Tapi nama keluarga atau nama Bapak saya ...
Kali ini ada nama saya di undangan yang saya terima. Agak menyedihkan sebab di belakang nama saya tertulis "& Pasangan" Nggak perlu dijelaskan kan, kenapa jadi begitu menyedihkan ....
Yang menikah adalah kakak kelas dari angkatan III yang kenal dan pernah bersama di Pabrik Roti. Agak aneh saat pertama bertemu dan kenalan. Tempat kost satu distrik tapi malah pulang sendiri-sendiri ... Saya pilih busway, beliau milih pake P19 padahal sebelumnya sudah ada yang ngasih tau saya kalau beliau ini juga tinggal di bonsir regency ...
Tapi hal tadi tidak berlangsung lama, selang beberapa lama akhirnya tiap pulang selalu bersama ... Jangan mikir aneh-aneh ... bersama karena memang satu jalur dan tidak ada kegiatan lainnya ... Awalnya masih naek metromini, tapi begitu bertemu KRL, jadinya jatuh cinta sama KRL ...
OK stop, cukup sampai disitu perkenalannya ... back to the topic ... THE WEDDING ...
Nikahannya di Cibubur, Gd. Pandan Wangi di depan Cibubur Junction. Berangkat sama KSBD 13 pake Big Bird. Oia, di dalem Big Bir-nya ada TVnya lho ... trus kita nonton "Allien vs Predator" sepanjang jalan. Ternyata eh ternyata, si istri mas erfan [kakak kelas saya yang tadi saya ceritakan namanya Erfan, kerja jadi NOC di Pabrik Roti dan sekarang jadi sarjana Ilmu Komunikasi] itu adeknya si Dicky Chandra. Woila ... jadi ketemu ma artis dey... Dan nggak cuma itu, ternyata yang naik kepelaminan mewakili keluaga mempelai wanita adalah si Dicky Chandra tadi ... Salaman dey saya ... Dan nggak cuma itu, ternyata si Dicky Chandra tadi ngajakin temen-temen artis lain, kebanyakan pelawak macam 4 sekawan gitu dey ... Trus disana arena foto-fotonya nggak cuma sama pengantin, tapi juga sama si pelawak pelawak tadi ... ha ha ha ...
Oia, saya juga ketemu dengan teman-teman lama saya sesama tukang roti [dulu]. Nothing gonna change on them ... still be a powerfull and wonderfull man ...
Dateng ke acara nikahan, ternyata pertanyaan yang sering muncul masih sama ... "sendirian, mana pasangannya ?" tapi saya masih beruntung, setidaknya bukan pertanyaan "Kapan nyusul??" yang harus saya jawab ... he he he ...
Yaw dah ... buat mas Erfan ... Selamat menempuh hidup baru, selamat menuju gerbang keluarga sakinah, mawaddah, wa rahmah ... membentuk keluarga dan generasi ummat yang dapat menjadi penyejuk hati dan pemimpin yang membawa kemashlahatan ummat ... Amien ... Amien ... Amien ...
Buat saya ... "Kapan Nikah ?"
Nantikan jawabanya hanya di sini ... :P
-Bonsir Regency Sektor 13 No 13B-

why must be in english ?

Beberapa postingan terbaru saya menggunakan bahasa inggris yang super duper kacau balau. Walau nggak ada yang nanya kenapa, tapi dengan besar hati akan saya jelaskan mengapa blog yang saya dedikasikan berbahasa INDONESIA ini ternodai oleh beberapa postingan usil ala penjajah India dan Malaysia (Baca : Inggris)
Ceritanya saya dapat tugas dari bapak yang ini. Tugasnya jadi nilai UAS. Terima kasih Pak, bapak baik sekali ... Tugasnya adalah membuat blog yang didalamnya terdapat adsense dari pak dhe google. Hhmmm... sipil ... Tapi ternyata eh ternyata saya sampai menghabiskan 4 account gmail dan kira-kira 3 blog baru yang jadi korban gara-gara pengajuan adsense google saya ditolak mentah-mentah sama pak dhe google dengan alasan Unsupported Languages.
Ceritanya dengan PeDe-nya saya mendaftarkan blog ini dengan account eksisting gmail saya dan hasilnya DITOLAK. Terpaksa create account gmail baru namun tetap dengan bangganya saya ajukan blog saya ini sebagai blog yang layak untuk dipasangi adsense. Dan untuk kedua kalinya saya DITOLAK. Tanya sana sini, akhirnya dari calon ibu [namanya masih rahasia, beliau yang meminta merahasiakan kehamilannya pada khalayak ramai] saya dapat info harus bikin postingan dalam bahasa inggris dan postinglah saya dengan postingan yang judulnya "open mind". Walau sebenarnya poostingan tadi hasil comotan postingan pada blog multiply saya .... Dan dengan sangat bergembira saya lagi-lagi menerima email penolakan dari pak dhe Google.
Hampir putus asa, ada ide untuk menambah postingan bahasa inggris supaya rada banyakan bahasa inggrisnya. Sampai semalaman saya menuliskan bahasa inggris [jujur, nggak sampai semalaman kok :D] dan kembali mengajukan applikasi dan hasilnya dengan bangga saya nyatakan DITOLAK ... hhhuupppffff ....
Dan dari calon ibu yang sama, dapat info lagi buat ajah blog baru dengan email baru dan ajukan lagi setelah di posting tulisan bahasa inggris. Maka membuatlah saya email baru, blog baru, lalu mengisinya dengan bahasa inggris dan langsung mengajukan aplikasi. Namun lama ditunggu, hingga lebih dari 24 jam belum ada jawaban. Putus asa .... Akhirnya melakukan hal yang sama seperti diatas, tapi saat diisi dengan tulisan yang saya comot dari tante Wiki edisi bahasa inggris, pak dhe google malah marah-marah sambil ngirim email notifikasi bahwa blog saya adalah spam ... Ohhh tidakkkk ... Dan dengan penuh keyakinan saya tidak melanjutkan untuk mengajukan blog spam ala google tadi ke adsense. Sambil membuka satu-satu email yang saya create dengan harapan akan ada email notifikasi yang menyatakan approval pengajuan adsense saya.
Dan jam berdetak ... tik tok tik tok ... keyboard teman sebelah saya berdenyut tik tak tik tak ... tak ada harapan dari adsense ... dengan gaya yang super melas, akhirnya sampailah saya pada email dan adsense yang saya ajukan kemarin ... dan TaDa ... Congratulation ... Your application has approved ... bla bla bla ....
IIhhhiiiiyyy .... hasilnya silakan dilihat di sini ...
Note : jangan coba buka pake proxy di pabrik panci, di blok adsensenya ....

Sunday, January 11, 2009

2008’s Evaluation and 2009’s Resolution

Maybe its too late if I write these post now, but I think it’s better then I didn’t write anything’s else.

2008’s evaluation

If remind all situation and all things that happened at 2008, I think 2008 it’s a better year than 2007. I feel 2007 its very suck year because I feel I do nothing. Stagnancy is a routinely. Thanks to God , its didn’t happen at 2008. A big change was happened at the middle year. A true life become and big dream and big opportunity was came.

In economic side, thanks to God once more time, I can catch my saving target [*for my secret target at 2009*]

My college education at 2008 it’s also running well. All schedules was on the right track. And until now I can finish 112 SKS’s. Need a little step again to create “S.Kom” after my last name.

Start dreaming and start to make it come true … J

2009’s resolution

First of all, I don’t want make a same year as 2008. 2009 must be my other successful year.

2009 must be a start year for me to be a better man. Not only be a better boy or just be good teenager [serious mode ON].

My 2009 mission must go on and be a successful thing what ever happen. So, I would make at begin and the middle of this year is the time to prepare all the things. Sorry, I wouldn’t explain what mission it is. Lay the time to answer it.

2009 must be last year for me to make “S.Kom” follow my last name. Note = Need a few year to make it. So, I would make this year is the last year to make it. Ammmiinnnn …

And the last, I’m must optimized God have the best plan for me, specially about my occupation and my future live. Still need guidance and bless from HIM.


I things that’s all of my resolution. But it is just a master plan. Soon, I will make a real plan to do my master plan above. On next post …

[Press Conference] Why I seldom update my post ?

Unbelievable, check on the left side of this page. Specially on part 'blog archive' and look for the post statistic of my post ... and see the decrease number from June to July and July to August. What a surprising … from more then 20 posts become less then 5 posts …

Some of my blog readers [*sorry if I’m too confidence with my statement that my blog have a lot of readers :D] was question me … What happen with you ? Are you so busy so you can make a little note ? Want to know what my answer? [*Yes, of course*] Yap, I’m too busy to browsing useless web site, I’m didn’t have a lot of time to blog walking and write a note at my blog again …

It’s not a big deal … I can live without write a post … I just feel something’s was lost from my live. But I still feel comfort of my live. Even I can write on my blog often, but I feel the comfortable that I was dreamed so many time ago and It’s be come true now … Thanks God, you answer my pray …Unbelievable, check on the left side of this page. Specially on part 'blog archive' and look for the post statistic of my post ... and see the decrease number from June to July and July to August. What a surprising … from more then 20 posts become less then 5 posts …

Some of my blog readers [*sorry if I’m too confidence with my statement that my blog have a lot of readers :D] was question me … What happen with you ? Are you so busy so you can make a little note ? Want to know what my answer? [*Yes, of course*] Yap, I’m too busy to browsing useless web site, I’m didn’t have a lot of time to blog walking and write a note at my blog again …

It’s not a big deal … I can live without write a post … I just feel something’s was lost from my live. But I still feel comfort of my live. Even I can write on my blog often, but I feel the comfortable that I was dreamed so many time ago and It’s be come true now … Thanks God, you answer my pray …

alhamdulillah ... it's a great bless

Thanks to God for this feel, for this life ... I so sorry for my bad in the past, sorry for the worst thing, for the worst think, for the worst done .... I'm very disappointed with my self, my think about life ... Please, forgive me God, Blessing me ...

Saturday, January 10, 2009

open mind ...

Remember a time ago, one of my friends used "open mind" as him status. As a word "open mind" means think more and more. In terminology open mind means think more then that you can think, dont be a prisoner of the prison that made by our think. I'am not too remember what the complete means that ever explained in my friend's blog but in another word, open mind means think more and more and straight to the future and be free from all obstacle and shackle.

Its enough internesting to be explore more, because open mind make me stoped to think somethink that useless and so far from my life now and make me think all of the think around me. And I think with open mind method of course ...

In this moment I will be a old man or oldies man. You can make an assumsion that I giving suggestion for may self or try to make my self happy. Ok ... in my brain open mind give more and more meaning behind the word that just two combining word.

When we open minding, we must be free from all of trouble, obstacle, and shacle that made by our self. So we must be more objective to our self and dont be our self. In another word, we must be anyone else. Dont think about happiness and sadness, but think that we are finding the best way from the problem. The best from the 'goodness' version, not from our version.

I think the easiest way to open mind is collect all of the fact that have relation with our problem. Think and choose one by one. Dont think about like or dislike, but think about the bigest adventage in the future.

Why must think about the future ? not the present ? a simple answer I think ... because we life for the future not for the present. The present actually is the effect from the past. Believe or not, but everythings not suddenly happen, everythings need proccess. Rice that we eat everyday is coming from the village and over some unsimple proccess. Think if the rice still in the field, do you think that rice will give an advantage ?? I dont think So. And look the proccess, I think it is not a simple proccess. Find and think it !

My wrote not recommend to live in sadness. I just want to drawing that the way to be success not always enjoyable. But not imposible to be enjoyable thing. My condition now is not loose from everythings that I did in the past 3 years ago. Lets imagine what will happen if at that time I choosed to enjoy my life and broke my study ... So what happening now ....

Look like my wrote in the last, dont look what are you doing now, but look what the impact of you do in the futures.